The months leading up to the holidays are filled with traditions I love. The days grow shorter, the nights longer and darker—and if you’re really lucky, a quiet stillness of snow covers the landscape. It’s the perfect time for a brisk morning walk, a chance to root ourselves in what truly matters: nature, and the calm connection it offers in the midst of a busy season.
When you come home from work or in from the cold, light a few candles, switch on softer lamps, or stoke a fire if you have one. Stir a pot of hearty vegetable soup, put on some music, start a cozy winter puzzle, or curl up with a good book. These small but mighty rituals help us recharge and enjoy time with ourselves—a gentle balance to the festive bustle.
Of course, I also love gathering with friends and family to share food and laughter. A couple of our favorite traditions come from Norway, inspired by my husband’s heritage—making Fårikål in the fall, or preparing risgrøt in winter and gathering with neighbors to share the story of the fjøsnissen.
Another joy of the season is visiting local holiday markets and browsing small businesses. Each year, we make it a goal to shop small and keep our money local. It’s a simple yet powerful way to support our communities rather than large corporations. Shopping this way can feel like a luxury, especially on a budget, but one small, thoughtfully chosen, well-made gift that lasts for years is worth more than a mass-produced item that’s quickly forgotten. If it’s not possible to shop in person, I do love a hand-made candle or pair of knit mittens from one of the countless talented makers on Etsy.
Homemade gifts are another favorite of mine—both to give and receive. One year, I made body scrubs from coconut oil, coffee grounds, and a touch of lavender. I thrifted small jars, handwrote simple labels, and tied each with a bit of string and a sprig of holly, rosemary, or lavender from the garden. Gifts like these invite us to slow down—in both the making and the giving. They’re also lovely to create together as a family or couple, keeping the spirit of generosity shared rather than shouldered by one person alone.
My wish for you, dear readers, is a holiday season filled with ease, warmth, and laughter—with time to rest, connect, and delight in the beauty of simple things. In closing, here are a few of my holiday offerings in the form of hand-made ornaments and original paintings. As always, thank you for reading. Happy Holidays!